Do You Think That Tough Love Is Something We Should Consider Using To Disciplining Your Child?

Do You Think That Tough Love Is Something We Should Consider Using To Disciplining Your Child?

Personally I think that tough love is something that every parent should use to apply discipline to their kids whenever it is necessary. My daughter has a bad habit of over spending she would spend money every foolishly all the time and then she would come crying for me or her grandmother for help. I just abhor the way she uses her grandmother as her personal bank. She uses her grandmother like an ATM machine. She would call her grandmother and ask for money and expect to get it right away. So we decided to teach her how to budget her money.

Although we tried many times to show her how to budget her money by taking out the most important things such as her bills, her rent, food money, and car payment then whatever money she has left should keep her until she receives the monthly money she gets from her  school. I have never used tough love before but I think it was time to harden our hearts a little and show her some tough love. I think that it's one of the hardest thing for a parent do to their child. But sometimes it is necessary to apply it when needed. We have tried countless times to give her motherly advice but all our efforts just seems to past through one ear and out through the other. Parenting is hard work and I am going to tell you why.

 Providing your children with the everyday necessity such as shelter, clothing, and food is more stressful than you can ever imagine and as for their emotional needs which is an entirely different thing all together.

Each child has a different personality and nurturing each child is difficult sometimes. I am tired of spoiling my children by giving them money whenever they ask for it. All parents should reinforce discipline to their children at a very early age.

Punishment is one way to discipline your child for misbehaving and it's very effective than actually using physical action. Let me just remind you that children doesn't come with instructions manuals.

Why people create viruses to harm other people's computer

I really can’t understand why people would want to create virus and send it out so that it will harm other people’s computer. I just don’t know why people would do that kind of thing anyway. Well, my computer had a virus the other day and it keep shutting down my computer every time I tried turning it on. Then out of nowhere an antivirus protection appears on the screen telling me that my computer has been infected and it can clean my computer in seconds I didn’t know what to do so I click on it and it started scanning my computer and it found many viruses I think it was around 30 of them. The minute it finished scanning my computer it tells me to purchase it for only $24.

I think that whoever is sending those viruses are having a difficult time getting their virus program sold. So they send viruses to other people’s computer then their antivirus protection will pop up on your computer for you to purchase it. But I have a feeling that if you purchase it you will lose your money and it’s not going to do what it suppose to do anyway. I think it is a fake program to scam people out of their money. People will do anything to get money now a day especially people from India.

The virus that was on my computer will sometime automatically open a new tab with an advertisement or a home base business program. I thought that the bug could be in my search engine because whenever I start a search it comes up with something different for example if I put (cooking recipe) into the search engine and then press the enter button I will get something totally different from what I had just put in the search bar. Well, I guess we will have to find a way to detect a virus before we unknowingly down load it on our computer wouldn’t that be great! I realized that viruses can come on your computer not only by downloading something on it.. Avast is a very good antivirus protection program but there are others that are much better. I think that the free ones only protect your computer to a certain limit. There are antivirus programs that charge a yearly fee but everybody seems to prefer to use the free ones on their computer why? Because it does the same thing so why pay a yearly fee when you can get it done for free.

To get rid of the virus my boyfriend had to reformat the computer which took a couple of hours. Then he had to install the software all over again like Microsoft Word, Excel and PowerPoint even the software for the printer too. Everything had to be reinstalled as a matter of fact. I have to be supper careful not to download anything that looks like it contain a virus because I don’t want to go through all of that again.